I've learned that my comforts are enjoying my partner, my friends and good friends. Lately, life has been tremendously well. I've decided for my self that I'm going to become more of "doer" than a "sayer". Which will explain the reason you are reading this blog. Just about everyday, when I'm alone, my thoughts rapidly fire out thoughts of the day. I consider it a transference of energy and wasted thought. I've always wanted to share my daily intimate thoughts with all of my friends at once. So here goes nothings.
Today started off rather rocky due to an incident from the previous day. I wasn't in the mood to be bothered with anybody, so luckily for me I had the pleasure of going into the office for 8 hours. So needless to say, my words were few and far between. People noticed it, but honestly I didn't care. I'm not perfect, so I'm not going to pretend that every day is a great day. So let's fast forward through the day......dumb shit was said ................flakiness was at an all time high..........laughed a few times are genuinely funny shit no matter how remedial.........ate lunch.........dealt with more dumb shit being said..........thought about giving a dog or two some chocolate because they get on my nerves sometimes...........talked to a friend on the phone.
Now the only thing worth talking about is "talked to a friend on the phone". Just in case you are wondering, there is a great possibility that our conversation may appear in one of these blogs, so don't get all pissed. I will not mention names, I will just speak on the situation. Since this is a blog, some people may feel inclined to comment on your situation, so if you get all defensive with your response YOU run the risk of "outting" yourself. Now back to the regularly scheduled program.
This particular friend called me and decided that "they" wanted to compare their relationship to mine and how theirs is more traditional. This is in no way saying that my partnership with PJ is perfect. HOWEVER, there is no way in hell a couple inviting a 3rd into their bedroom is traditional. Especially considering that you've only been into this "relationship" (and I say that loosely) less than 1 year. If in fact a couple needs to invite 3rds into their bedroom after such a short period of time, to me it means you are already bored with each other and you need to spice up your circumstance. So anyway lets fast forward again..................dumb comments like " people cheat everyday, so why not do it in the open".................................. "it's just sex, our love is deeper than a physical attraction to another person"................. "it keeps our sex life fresh and exciting". Needless to say, I ended that conversation very quickly.
So is it me or is this person delusional? Yes, people cheat everyday, however this sort of behavior in my opinion condones a persons inability to commit. And how about you're not in love with this person. You are enamored by the mere fact that you can have stability financially and have multiple sexual partners. My thoughts are not a surprise to this person as "they" are reading it just as you are. The comfortability this person has with not having to be responsible has hyped "them" up about the possibility of getting married. The only things I hear this person saying is "the ass is good," "I don't want for anything" and "the endless supply of weed is crazy". That's pathetic and I wish "they" would wake up from "their" sarcophagus of stupidity. I didn't even feel the need to go into the vast difference of my love from PJ and how our relationship is more traditional because it would have fell on deaf ears.
This has been running through my head all damn day. How can a person really have such strong opinions about things that go against the natural grain of the basics of love? I mean after a long work out at the gym, I digressed from it. I mean am I wrong, you tell me or not?
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