It's about us, not me!

A very good friend of mine had this as his status update on Facebook "When a “close friend” becomes an "associate." Albeit a very natural evolution, the process of re-categorizing people in our lives that we were once VERY close to is a chore. We must accept it for what it is.. unfortunately, most relationships have a shelf life". He and I always talk about the lines of communication and how friendships need to be nurtured and etc. So with that being said, you may know already, I'm engaged and VERY happy about it. And to make sure I stay in my happy place about our wedding, I want to make this one important fact VERY clear. Our wedding is about us, not me or him individually. It's about the celebration of our union. With that said, it would be completely ridiculous for people to think that we would have people in our wedding party that don't celebrate us/our union. It would be even more absurd for us to have individuals in our wedding party that chose not to get to know he or I before we got engaged. Unfortunately the means friends that he and I have had for ages that didn't celebrate us will not be in our wedding party, they will be invited; it is their decision as to whether or not they attend. No hard feelings, but as many of you have heard about me, I'm blatantly honest and I making sure I stand behind, next to and in front of my integrity.


GKS